When Elke did a quick search on the internet, she found mostly headlines like “How do you get your man to commit”, or “How to tell if he is Commitment Phobic”. With just a search, there seems to exist the stereotype cliché, that commitment is something women want to have and men have either difficulties committing, or are willing to give it for the exchange of sex. Nowhere can be found what it is that women want men to commit to and the picture what was painted is it’s all about the signature on
a marriage certificate.
The artist Randy Glasbergen made a beautiful little cartoon of a woman saying to a man: “You have a 30 year mortgage, a 5 year car lease, and a lifetime gym membership…but you are afraid of commitment?